Every day that goes by the women are becoming more and more like men. Quicker to have sex, more likely to have multiple partners, and recently—more likely to have multiple partners at the same time. Nowadays in Atlanta you hear more and more stories about women using one man for rent and another for her car payment.

Preface A few things to keep in mind:

◾This is not a guide for a first date—you should assume every girl is fucking another guy, especially if you are not already providing her with her penis craving.
◾Similarly, these signs are based on behavior once a girl is comfortable enough with you and not just based on a few dates.
◾You also must not be the jealous type. If she feels she has to hide things from you, then her actions could stem from your behavior and not her own actions.
◾Do you even care? I used to but not anymore. I’m not currently looking for an LTR and I know I sound like a broken record but the reality is that this is the way things are today. An overabundance of options couple with the societal acceptance of female promiscuity means more likely than not she’s riding the concurrent penis pogo.

Finally, realize that women are both incredible liars and manipulators, and sometimes oblivious to everything. So while these may serve as a tell, you can never be certain as they may be intentionally throwing you off or just too caught up in their own worlds to realize they are presenting something as a tell when it really is not.

Returnofthekings nailed this list.

1. The Phone Is Face Down

I’ve dated some girls casually that whenever the girl has her phone out and she leaves it on the table, the counter, the couch, wherever it may be, it is always face down. Why is she doing this? To hide something. And what would she want to hide from a guy she’s regularly seeing? Probably the screen of her phone showing a text notification from some other guy. The last thing she wants you to see is “Mike Irish Pub” or “Joe Tinder” popping up as a text notification.

2. She Checks, But Does Not Respond To Certain Texts

99% of all girls engage in mindless banter with their other girlfriends via text. They love to text back and forth and if you’ve ever laid in bed next to a girl when she gets a text from one of her girlfriends, they will always respond and quickly, even if it requires no response.

So if she doesn’t respond right away? It’s a guy. This one is a bit trickier as girls usually have many many orbiters and other guys that will incessantly text them even months after one failed date. So take this one with a grain of salt. But as a generality if she continuously gets texts that she checks but does not respond to in front of you, chances are she doesn’t want to respond for a specific reason.

3. Downtown Denial

Now I’m not suggesting that you are, or should, go down on a girl every time you have sex… not my style, care or concern. But if she doesn’t let you eat her out and she usually does, it’s because there was a dick in there less than 12 hours ago. Yes sometimes they can just not be in the mood for it, maybe she hasn’t showered or thinks her period is coming. But as conniving as a girl can be, a part of her does stop them from letting their regular guy put his mouth where another man’s dick has just been.

To a lesser extent it can be applied to blowjobs and sex. If she suddenly starts giving you blowjobs when she didn’t before, it may be because she feels guilty about sucking another guy’s dick. No sex may be because she just had sex the same day. But to be frank once you start getting girls to open up to you, as I am starting to be better at doing, you will be shocked. Most have no problem fucking two guys on the same day, making out with a guy after blowing another guy hours before, and so on.

4. Her “Friend” Is Always Without A Gender Specification

This one is self-explanatory. If she’s referring to past or future plans with a “friend” and does not say girlfriend or use “she” then it’s a dude. Craftier girls will just say she even if it is a guy but some girls like to hamster themselves by just withholding details as opposed to outright lying.

5. The Surprise Cooch Shave

Assuming she does not already keep her vagina shaven and you’ve had sex with her more than once (as the first time maybe she wasn’t expecting sex and wasn’t ready), if she randomly shaves it’s because she is expecting sex with someone else. This is accentuated if the shave occurs on a day she didn’t see you, e.g. she shaved it on Saturday and you are seeing her on Sunday.

Take Away

Again these are not definitive signs but something you should keep an eye out for. These days you should just assume she is sleeping with others until proven otherwise, which unfortunately is an exercise in futility in itself.

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  • BzB

    “Top 5 Signs You’re Not The Only One….for simps and insecure guys”

    • JohnSmith

      Basically….and niggas who Trina make it work with a THOT….FOH

    • NoWhiteInMyCup

      +1000 homie couldnt have said it better myself

      Any real nicca puts business and priorities intact after God, the last thing we worried about is a biitch thats sending sneak text messages or lays her phone down on the low.

      On sum real nicca sh!t, if she lay her phone face down and dont text around me its actually a sign of respect in my opinion , because she laying with me and sneaking with the lame, stay focused and fcuk these ho3s

    • Mister Mister

      Pretty much….if you knocking that joint something serious, then that girl is not going to want to share you lol

  • Kingme

    there’s no rules and every chick is a little bit different.

  • TroyR

    Man some of these chicks are just like men they get bored. Girl I work with f**ks around on her man just b/c she needs something different.

    • NoWhiteInMyCup

      @kingme and @Troy i agree, which goes back to my main point, a real nicca stays focused on success.

      If you ever notice its always the over sensitve gym rat lame niggaz who have no life and handcuff that pressure these broads.

      Celebrities are focused on thier craft, ho3s aint sh!t to them, Females smell a weak nicca and confidence a mile away .

      Let that ho3 breath if she cant appreciate you Fcuk her and get paper,

      A real nicca let these broads breath and we dont keep them on collars

      • Murder

        Let em know f**k these h03s stay focused a toxic **** can ruin you I must say I lost a lot of respect for n***s over how they conduct themselves over these broads understand you get you’re money long you can have any b***h you want forever

    • Mitchrapp

      +1000 these broads just like men. Music especially rap music has programmed broads that certain behaviors are the norm and actually what men want, e.g. Stripping. Now chicks actually proud of that, check the article about the 2 timberwolves guys. That broad actually proud. Maybe cool for a side piece but NEVER for a wife. Shame on the lames for wifing these chicks up.

  • Cease

    I would pick up the phone and look at her facial reaction. If she looks relaxed and does not care than she is not doing anything. Does she immediately run over and try to take it away from you?

  • queso (The Corp)

    I could give a dam if some random chick I’m smashing is smashing other dudes…just keep me in rotation bitc#

    • MoorThugRelated

      Who wanna share p**** though?

      • It ain’t about wanting to share pussi @mooron, but the game is the game. Smart n**** know that a chick he’s “just smashing” is more than likely letting at least “1 other dude” smash too. Keep ya feelings to a minimum and strap up always! !!

        *bishop don magic jaun voice*…”chuuch”

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  • therealjiggaboo

    If I’m smashing her good and after 2-3 months we still using condoms either she burnt or she another dude. Or if I’m hittin her up more then she does me. She probably got another dude. And if she never talks or even jokes about me only seeing her she probably somebody else on the side. I really don’t care but Im just a raw dog type of dude lol

    • 1luv

      So you would gamble your life for a couple of minutes of pleasure?

      • therealjiggaboo

        Man I’m I try to strap up..especially with strange woman but we all been up in sumthin raw especially after you been with her 3+ months. Lets say twice a week 2 rounds each. That’s 48 condoms..not realistic #itsadirtygame

  • MoorThugRelated

    When u hit her and her thang feel a lil deeper, u know Moor been in it. My bad

  • torchi

    Lol yall n*** think money will hold a girl down for life are dead wrong money wont keep her if she aint f*** with you on a spiritual or personal level to balance it out.

    N****s listening to too much gangsta rap lol

  • asas

    all these niggas saying f a bitch who cares who else she smashing are the ones dying of hiv/adis or scratching their herpes breakout while trying to feel cool by acting like loving women is wrong. they most like a homo trying to convince hetro men that holding down a loyal women is foolish

    • Mr4398

      I feel you man. But the topic of this article ain’t talking about a wholesome girl. This topic was about some random chick that you giving the D to.. But I totally agree if you find the right one take advantage of it but for the rest of them hoes get what you can and keep em in rotation

  • Drake more emo than emo

    A hoe is a h** is a ** is a h***. P.s. h*** ain’t got no gender. Cant turn a h*** into a husband either 😉

  • Sound advice. A tad novice, but still sound advice nevertheless. There are definitely some who need to hear this. Apparently the gents in the comment section appear to be hip to the game and have an adaptive attitude to the current dating environment and women. Good for the gents.

    Mr. SoBo