Apparently reality star Tila Tequila didn’t need a dating show to find true love. On Monday, she announced on her official blog that she’s dating Kim Kardashian’s ex, Ray-J.

“No man has made me feel so loved and so happy in such a long time. We really do love each other, and I am so happy to have FINALLY met someone who treats me with respect and love,”

she wrote.

“He is so sweet to me and makes me melt every time I see him. I love my baby so there you have it! Tila Tequila is officially dating Ray J!!!!!! I think we make the cutest couple,”

she added.

Tequila went public with their relationship because she was sick of all the rumors.

“We’ve been dating for a while but didn’t want the media to find out because it’s nobody’s business, but since all these other random rumors starting poppin up that I’m dating so, and so, I finally felt that I needed to tell the world that rumors are NOT TRUE!!!!”

she wrote.

Ray-J gained exposure after his sex tape with Kardashian leaked. He is also the younger brother of R&B singer Brandy.