Honesty: Telling Women You Want To Smash Straight Up!11 Comments Fellas how many times have you heard a female you just started talking to tell you “I wish guys just keep it real and said they just wanted to have sex and had no intentions on having a relationship.. I would of been cool with that” I always took that as a warning sign before I go further with my feelings for you speech. So this myth was busted in the video above (I don’t think he asked enough women or his approach was smooth). At what point do you keep it 100 and say I just want to have sex with you? After you ask the routine questions that you have to make your self seem interested about if you see no future for her in your life. Have you ever told a woman straight up I just wanna smash and she was cool with it? The direct method..