Amerie Complex Magazine October/November 2009
The “1 Thing” hitmaker is busy promoting the release of her fourth album In Love & War. Amerie talks about cheating and “wanting space” for the “Women Are Complex, Too” article from the October/November 2009 issue of Complex.
Men say: If I’ve only been seeing a woman for a month, I’m not expected to be exclusive.
Amerie says: Unless it’s been explicitly stated that you two are exclusive, it’s best to assume you’re not. Women date men—as in going out on “dates”—and feel awkward if they run into him on a date with someone else. Trust me, if a man doesn’t say so, he’s not exclusive and probably sleeping with someone else.
Men say: Cheating is only an issue if you get caught.
Amerie says: One of the consequences of cheating is that you only trust somebody as much as you trust yourself. Even the whole line of “wanting space”—they’ve probably already cheated at least once. It’s thinking, “I don’t want to risk losing this person, so instead of being honest, I’ll put them on the side while I get all this stuff out my system.”Men say: Women settle more easily than men.
Amerie says: Men rarely settle; they won’t wife up someone they don’t feel is worthy of them. A woman can persistently chase a man, and he may sleep with her, but it’ll never make him love her. Yet a guy that a woman’s not interested in can hound her, and if he’s persistent enough, he’ll wear her down. Women are more malleable. Yet, we’re still the smarter sex. Men can’t handle the truth about women—that we can be as noncommittal, manipulative, and promiscuous as they are.
nice. Sexy slim.
hell yeah, that amerie, she is bad and always will be
she is the prettiest rnb singer eva
Without a doubt she’s sexy…But Im tired the whole battle of the sexes. The greatness game the was and has ever been ran is that women are smarter then men. I could go on for days, but the real is neither sex is the smartest. Men and women think differently and are only equal in the fact that men lack what women bring to the table, and women lack what men bring to the table. The problem is that women’ll be damned before they admit it!…..and Of course women’ll settle first they out number us at least 3 to no matter where you go.
*3 to 1*
About the article: It’s been said before that women a better players than men. I’d rather know the truth, than have a chick BS me. She has a pretty face & some sexy legs. PEACE!!!
is it me or do all a-marie songs sound alike. she does have some nice legs.. true
is it me or do all a-marie songs sound alike. she does have some nice legs.. true
wife thats all im gone say
mmmmm mmmmmm
damn she is fine and is a real cutie!! she is def wifey material right there!!! she can get it all day, amerie keep it up girl, you are hot no matter what you are doing!!